So I was thinking of taking a sick day today. You know when you sometimes don’t feel great and you decide you really want to stay home so you call your work and tell them you are taking a sick day and then you spend the day just relaxing and resting.
Then I remembered, moms do not get sick days. And I am not the one that is sick, my daughter is. She is very whiney today and then of course there is the newborn who does need to eat every three hours. Although my older son is at my dad and stepmom’s so there is a break right there.
Don’t get me wrong, I love being a stay-at-home mom, but some days it just hits you that you can’t take a sick day and even if you could you wouldn’t want to stay at home to relax (because that is where all the laundry is and the dusting that needs to be done and the bathrooms that need to be cleaned).
Now I’m off to find the chocolate – the next best thing to having a sick day.


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July 14, 2009 at 4:35 pm
Lindsey
I’d bring you some chocolate balls, but, well…you know!:)
July 14, 2009 at 8:07 pm
kate
Good reason to have chocolate on hand at all times!
And who says Moms can’t take sick days? Heck, I’ve been known to take ’sick’ days even when I’m not sick. Everyone needs a break, and since I obviously can’t take a break from Mothering, I do the next best thing- take the day off of everything else! No cleaning, no laundry and no cooking! Instead, I spend the day relaxing with the kids.
Plan ahead to make sure you have a frozen dinner or some other plans for dinner, and serve quick and easy stuff for breakfast and lunch.
Watch movies, read books, play games/puzzles, even nap. If I’m especially motivated I might give myself a pedicure, but usually it’s nice to just chill. Especially with a new baby!
If that’s not possible, take a 1/2 day off- or take an evening and when Dad comes home leave him and the kids at home while you go get a latte or browse the bookshop.
It’s more important now than ever that you take good care of yourself so that you will be able to take better care of your family.
July 14, 2009 at 10:32 pm
Heidi @ Indy Photography
Poor little Makenna.
I feel you. “Sick” days would be great….if only it wasn’t for that truly SICK part that generally accompanies them.